I like how you list step by step issues that bother you when whites do these things yet you know what I find interesting is that minorities do these things the most to one another because they know or believe they can get away with it. For example I had an Hispanic woman do me like that. I worked with an Asian Teacher who would always call me out on my hair being in extensions or wearing a wig. People who worked for her did the same. Even a black woman who called herself explaining my braids. We are finding that even within the Afro American culture that there is racial stereotypes we do to ourselves that need to be broken. We should not assume that all blacks belong to the same culture. The 21 century has shown me my own hang ups. Life is about learning and getting it right.